Pschology is a noun that means: 'The science of mind and behaviour'
I think we are all Psychologists in one way or another. We change our behaviours to mirror that of our peers, we even use our skills of listening and talking to help our friends through difficult times and complex feelings.
I think the place we best do this is in the Pub. Have you notice how your words and feelings flow a little better with a shared pint with a friend - I use the work friend and not mate here on purpose. You see, I think there are differences in the 2. I wouldn't trust my mates with things I would trust my Friends with. - we often reach out in the pub. It's safer here as you can change the subject quickly and dance between serious and jovial to make he conversation easier to digest or cope with.
The reason I speak of this is that yesterday I was engaged in such an experience. Not even directly so to speak. I just know that after a day in the presence of 2 of my closest guys I felt, no I feel a lot better about things at the minute. An up-lifting experience of openness and opportunity was had and I hope the boys enjoyed it as much as I did!
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